Let’s talk preggos. I am 23 years old, my mom was 23 when she had her first and it wasn’t deemed young. These days, life is so expensive, relationships are so much more interconnected and as a result, sometimes shorter. Marriage seems to be a dropping trend, even throughout the growing trends in pregnancy. Socially, it is what it is. People don’t get married as often and who cares, if you want to do it, if not, don’t. When I was growing up a single family home often deemed for a struggle, but nowadays, its becoming the social norm. Culturally speaking however…whities mainly.
A negative side to this is the people who decide to have a child for the wrong reasons (friends are doing it, its trendy, or your lonely). Seems the trend is people wanting without thinking things through… 6 months ago, half of these girls were shitfaced clubbing regularly….now that is over, and there will be actual shit in their face regularly, no more fun…you’ve become a hardened women, motherhood, the reason for your being. It is my hope that this won’t be a shock, and that the experience is taken for what it should be, the greatest accomplishment a human being can do.
It doesn’t help with the likes of MTV’s “Teen Mom” and “16 and pregnant” making neglectful arguing parents a concreted section of today’s pop culture.
Don’t get me wrong, I look extremely forward to the day I get to hold my very own child and just be floored by the instant love and protection I will give to my baby. But I wanna be ready.
Not to mention the state of the world today, it sucks, when the zombie apocalypse comes, carrying around an infant can prove to be a huge burden.
So if you are pregnant you have my congratulations, I hope you take it all in and enjoy parenthood, I’m sure that if you planned this for the reason of starting a family, you will be a great parent and you kids will be lucky to have you. But if you got that way for the wrong reasons and don’t really have a grip of what’s to come, grow up quick and give it your all, otherwise your child has my pity and it will probably grow up a skid due to your neglect.
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